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Posted by kathan on 9 November 2015.

So 38yr old supposedly sober now. Yea right. He gives the game away in so many ways he is unaware of. To be honest I just want to beat him up,shake him and say get a life. At 4foot 11inches cant even reach his shoulder.He still denies that he said and did the things I  have said he did. But honestly  would  I  really make it up.

Have a new mantra....I did not cause it,I  can't cure it, I can't  control it.
Fat lot of good that does me in the wee small hours of the morning.
He is  living with his dad at the moment who was totally burying his head in the sand until his psychotic episode. He is as much use as a chocolate teapot,but he has an xbox!!!
On bad days I want to climb onto my roof and jump,so so tired of the effects of anxiety,
The best thing about all this is that he never married so no kids are involved.


Icarus Trust
11 Jan 2016

Hi Kathan,
You are obviously going through a really difficult time and I wonder if you have any support for yourself. The Icarus Trust is a charity that was set up to help people like you ,friends and families of addicts who are having to deal with the awful consequences of another's addiction. If you would like to get in touch we have' Family Friends', experienced trained volunteers who you could talk with which may help you feel less anxious and find a way ahead.
You can contact us on or visit the website
Good luck.

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