We care, for the better.
A place for families, because you don't have to use drugs to be affected by them.
- How do I know if they're using drugs?
- Why do they use drugs/alcohol?
- Is it my fault?
- How can I cope with their behaviour?
- Understanding the stages of addiction and recovery
- Where do I get the help I need?
- Getting support for your loved one
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What do I do
Posted by Hadenough! on 1 June 2014.
My son is 21 and been a canabis user since the age of 12. Now he says hes a crack user I've had heartbreak after heartbreak smashed up house time and time again police called windows smashed. 5 years ago I met my husband things calmed for a year or so but he was still using then we moved home my son started smoking more dope all day every day in the house we asked begged him to stop and in the end threw him out as he was forever borrowing money getting wongs loans. he refuses to work refuses to sign on even now I'm abroad for a year and he contacts at least 3 times a day demanding money we have no savings left he expects to be given 100 a day tells me he's not doing drugs and is working but is being convicted from his council flat he says for noise but more than likely not paying rent. He owes 1600 for his electric 960 for his water we are forever paying his dealers off. I'm guessing in the past 2 years he's cost us about 15k and he's still in debt. Every time I say no I can't give him money he smashes his flat up then I end up paying to replace everything cos I don't want him to suffer without. It's effecting my relationship with my husband. My son is now contacting his grandparents who are old and I'll demanding money daily. I'm constantly in tears what can I do
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