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worried about my boyfriend

Posted by chanel on 23 October 2015.

Im really worried about my boyfriend of 4 years. When we first got together i was 16. Everything was fine. After a year (when you actually feel like you love them) things started to change, i realised he was sniffing cocaine. Now its only every when he drinks. Only over the past year its getting more and more often. 

He drinks up to 2-3 times a week and when he drinks he gets so angry (never towards me). he will only calm down once hes had his line! Then.. hes the nicest person in the world. Only hes now starting to lie about what hes doing, when hes drinking because he knows ive had enough.

Im 21 years old and got a whole life ahead of me, but im just stuck to sit round and help him stop or leave him and get on with my life???


Icarus Trust
17 Nov 2015

Hi Chanel
It sounds as if you could do with someone to talk to who would understand how you are feeling. The Icarus Trust is a charity that supports the friends and family of addicts because we know how difficult it is. We have experienced trained volunteers who you could talk to which might help you to make sense of what is happening and help you to find a way ahead.
You can contact us on or visit the website
I hope this helps. Good luck.

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